Finding the one is every girls dream. Including me! Even if he is the 4th Hamsworrth brother, the most charming man on the plant. It doesn't make him relationship material
I know what you are thinking. Why can't I just find the right person and get over it? That's not how it works and OMG I wish it did. But first let's identify what's wrong. Then we can see who is right.
I have my fare share of bad relationships experience. From my first boyfriend, who turned out to gay.
To my last boyfriend who turned out to just want nudes. With he NEVER got! I get approached by guys every day. Not for being attractive. But I'm in the modelling industry. Guys that's a wrong dude magnet on it's one.
Not going anywhere with you
This is red flag number one. If I see this I should be running the opposite direction.
If he is hiding me there's something going on. Now I run, taken the fire escape if I need to. But don't go all creepy on him.
If I only have been dating for a week, I won't expect him to introduce me to his best friends and his parents. But if it's just not happening, leave!
Asking for sex
Lets be real. If he keeps bugging me for sex he isn't the one. Just because he has a six pack I won't be sleeping with him. Come on hun keep yourself in check. It can happen. I think the 3 date rules not that bad. But he shouldn't be asking it on the first date.
Talking about his ex
I know this may be obvious to most of you. But he shouldn't be talking about his ex. Maybe he is really sweet. But you can't open your hart to someone who isn't ready.