Blogger advice, don’t obsess over your followers

Blogger advice

The best decision I have made for my stress levels. It truly is amazing how obsessed I was with gaining followers. We all say it’s not about the numbers. But after some time it becomes a numbers game.” I do it for the love, waiting on the gold rush” like Ed Sheehan said.

I was talking to a friend and he was telling me that I am the one who decides. I hit that publish button and sometimes I lose sight of that. Sometimes I just write what is trending when in reality my posts that are just me being me get way more views.

Remembering why I love blogging

I can tell you that their have been times I have obsessed over followers. I don’t check my stats and how many people read my blog anymore. Just because I am doing it for the love and hoping for the best. That’s why you are getting these raw uncut opinions with all the weirdness I have.  I started this blog because I love to write and I am not losing that part of me.

Don’t worry

If you are putting good content out there that people can find. This means you should check your SEO and have tags! People will come and I am slowly realising that. Good content will be shared. I don’t sit and complain about all the marketing. Yes, I recommend doing your research and knowing what you are doing. But it’s about you, it isn’t some company ran by a man in a suit.

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  2. That’s true,there are so many successful bloggers out there and we should all remember it took them some time too to get there you know 🙂
    XOXO Lisa

  3. I completely agree. I tend to check stats every minute after I have posted something, but the numbers really don’t matter. A while ago I had a post that wasn’t really getting lots of views, but in the end it turned out to have been very helpful for just one or two people. In the end, that’s what I write for 🙂

  4. I’m so happy this advice helps you, and honestly, if you start a blog for the right reasons starts will become less and less importent. I was just the same for some time
    Xoxo lisa

  5. Such a good advice. I have to say, that I’ve noticed myself checking the stats obsessively but I agree with you that quality is much better than quantity, stats and numbers… little by little I am realizing that. Thanks for your advice it’s always useful to read someone else opinion

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